The Power of Right Relationship
A Transformational Retreat at Free Bird Farm & Stables
A Transformational Retreat at Free Bird Farm & Stables
What does it mean to live in Right-Relationship? It is the practice of honoring ourselves, others, and the natural world in a way that respects boundaries, acknowledges power dynamics, fosters trust, and cultivates mutual care.
In this immersive retreat, we’ll explore how power, control, and presence shape our relationships. With the wisdom of the horses as our guides, they will model for us attunement and non-verbal communication, while teaching us to listen with our whole bodies and restore balance where disconnection has taken root.
This retreat invites you to deepen your relationship with yourself, your community, and the ecosystems that sustain us. Come ready to release control, embrace interdependence, and transform your relationship with yourself and those around you.
Individual Pricing
Couples
Equine Coaching & Personal Development: Horses offer profound insight into power, presence, and relational dynamics. Through experiential learning, you will explore the subtle ways you communicate, hold boundaries, and embody leadership—without force or dominance.
Foster Social Awareness and Relationship Management: Engage in guided practices that cultivate deep self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and relational attunement. Learn to recognize where power and control may unconsciously shape your interactions and how to realign with respect and reciprocity.
Explore Life-Aligned Connection: Through intentional time in nature, you will experience the interconnectedness of all life, gaining insight into how Right-Relationship extends beyond human interactions and into the ecosystems that hold us.
Let Your Body Guide the Way: Explore movement, breathwork, and somatic awareness techniques to deepen your ability to listen—to yourself, to others, and to the unspoken wisdom of the world around you.
Restorative Community: Connect with a group of like-minded individuals who are committed to relational integrity, self-exploration, and healing through presence and connection.
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Meals
This retreat includes all meals!
Friday: Arrival Connection Time (5:00 PM) & Dinner (7:00 PM serving)
Saturday: Breakfast, lunch, and dinner (8:00 AM - 5:00 PM)
Sunday: Breakfast and lunch (8:00 AM - 3:00 PM)
Located at 11930 N Red Bud Trail in Buchanan, Michigan, we are 90 miles (1.5 hour drive) from Chicago. The directions via online maps are straightforward, and we are easy to find. All visits must be pre-arranged. When you arrive at the farm, there are two drives - please utilize the service road at the north end labeled ‘farm’ for access to the equine facility. Please note our 5 mph speed limit. This was installed to promote safety and reduce disruption to our delightful neighbor, Jack. Please drive slowly and be mindful of foot or farm-related activity.
Free Bird Farm & Stables is situated in beautiful southwestern Michigan and offers the region's premier equine facilities and amenities. Our entire property is devoted to the care, training, and development of horses and their owners. Our experienced staff features world-renowned equine specialists are passionate about providing an extraordinary standard of care and exceptional experiences with our beloved horses. The 21+ acre property has 17 stables, a heated indoor riding arena, an open-air outdoor riding arena, rolling hills, lush pastures with trails, and serene foliage. Our facility is home to equine-assisted coaching and leadership development through The Circle Up Experience.
This retreat is for those who want to:
Cultivate deeper, more authentic relationships—with themselves, others, and the natural world.
Strengthen communication, trust, and emotional intelligence in personal and professional relationships.
Learn how to set and honor boundaries with clarity and compassion.
Explore leadership rooted in presence and connection rather than control.
Release patterns of dominance or disconnection and step into more balanced, reciprocal relationships.
Individual Pricing
Couples
Natural Leadership is a leadership framework. It is our innate mammal capacity, as HUMAN ANIMALS, to take care of our NEEDS and to function in an interdependent relationship with others. When we are accessing our Natural Leadership, we can:
Sense nonverbal signals and attend to our needs and the needs of others.
Adjust to pressures, stresses, and changes in our environment.
Find EASE quickly and efficiently.
Create relational systems which allow us to negotiate needs and share resources so we can survive and thrive individually and in trusted groups.
Circle Up’s model of Natural Leadership and experiential learning with horses integrates human psychology, animal behavior, and natural systems to offer a unique approach to personal and professional development.
Humans have lived in “herds” for thousands of years — communities, big or small, that have provided us a safe haven for sharing resources and leaning on each other for support and fellowship. Even in these highly technological times when self-sufficiency is the norm, we still long to be connected. It’s how we truly thrive.
When we stray from our herd and stop practicing the basic elements of community-building and trust-growing, our groups and relationships suffer. Through meaningful experiences and intentional conversation, we can reclaim and revive this simple but essential part of our human story.
See yourself through the eyes of a horse, and you see your true nature.
Our starting point with any group is with our horses. Simply put, horse work is our assessment tool. While more traditional approaches can be valuable to how we understand ourselves and each other, few are so immediately transformative.
Our equine-assisted activities (non-riding) allow the horses to teach you and show you parts of your leadership that need more room to play.
As prey animals, horses possess exquisitely attuned emotional systems and they are able to pick up on the ever-changing nuances of mammals’ internal workings (that includes humans) as they assess for safety. The cohesion of the herd is at the heart of the group’s survival.
They rely on a radical commitment to awareness and to an ever-present feedback system flowing through their herd. This unique sensing system allows the horses to read each other and their environment so they can detect danger and look for opportunities to rest in safety.
It also allows them to read us and to notice the places where we are blocked. Because so much of our innate power is trapped in our thoughts and often self-defeating scripts, our truest desires are just out of our reach.
This is an opportunity to get honest AND gentle feedback from your equine teachers and coaching and support from your human facilitators.
You will leave this experience with an open channel of your authentic power ready for you to bring into your world.
Regular price
Couples
A long-time C-suite executive himself, Brad Lande-Shannon has a first-hand understanding of the pressures and stresses that face company founders, leaders, and high performance teams. This is partly why he first turned to Natural Leadership as he faced his own professional challenges.
Brad's passion for horses has been a life-long pursuit. Having competed with the National Cutting Horse Association as a youth and now as an adult amateur dressage competitor, he’s combined his deep horse expertise with his executive leadership coaching. Over the course of his career, Brad has guided thousands of leaders on values, purpose, emotional intelligence, and well-being.
Certified in the 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership and following training from The Center for Equus Coaching (formerly The Koelle Institute), Brad enrolled in the Natural Leadership program. Compared to other programs, Brad says Natural Leadership is, “deceptively simple and multi-dimensional in its use cases to apply and teach.”
Brad has an equestrian facility that offers Natural Leadership facilitation, coaching and programming at Awake Ranch, near Portland, Oregon, which he acquired with his husband in late 2022. “We are home to 16 horses, three goats, and two cats surrounded by Pacific Northwest trees and on farmland that regularly displays exquisite sunset and sunrise views.”
Michael Marks is the owner and driving force behind Free Bird Farm & Stables, a sacred space designed to restore the spirit, of humans and horses alike. In his third decade of a storied career in commercial real estate, Michael now directs more creative energy towards, and is consciously committed to, curating experiences that celebrate the healing magic of horses.
Michael’s passion for horses began at a young age, sparked by memorable visits to the countryside and, ultimately the racetrack, with his father. Their shared love of horses fostered a strong bond and built a lifelong connection to these uniquely intuitive and energetically honest animals. In 2011, Michael purchased Free Bird Farm & Stables, and started transforming the space.
While working with a Somatic Experiencing practitioner, Michael attended an equine assisted coaching retreat that forever changed the direction of his life. The unfamiliar yet essential nature of a well-regulated nervous systems came into focus and the reflections provided by horses became critical. Michael now seeks to create the experience of safety and connection in presence with equine partners.Learning that the leader of a herd is not the fastest or bravest, but rather the one with the most regulated nervous system was a pivotal moment in his appreciation for the insightful magic of horse work. Michael’s appreciation has only deepened through his own personal journey to restore his nervous system and heal. His passion to bring this experience forward for others is palpable at Free Bird Farm & Stables.